All you need to know about Masturbation

I get lots of questions on masturbation most especially from ladies -yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I’m not here to argue about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.

S*xual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear-says about s*x.

Masturbation is handling/rubbing/squeezing your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their female-core while guys rub, massage or caress their s*xual-organ. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a male s*xual organ and do solo sex (having s*x by yourself).


From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for s*x. It’s a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling s*xually aroused and your s*xual organ will stand erect for some minutes for no single reason in the world or you become s*xually aroused on seeing a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get s*xually aroused on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven’t committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and Hot? Have s*x? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release and personal pleasure through solo s*x while claiming ‘virginity’ at the same time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out.

 Let me explain:
1. Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the IMAGE of SOMEONE in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having s*x with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had s*x with man except objects during your solo s*x.

3. You kill your ability to enjoy s*x in future. Millions of women don’t enjoy s*x in marriage which leads to s*xual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won’t be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won’t have feelings for your husband’s s*xual-organ. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands’ s*xual organ is too small didn’t marry as virgins. They must have been promiscuous as singles by masturbation or having several s*xual partners.

4. You will not have a good s*x life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won’t enjoy you leading to acute s*xual frustration in marriage. You need self-control to fully enjoy s*x and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys s*x when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self-control before marriage helps you enjoy s*x to the maximum after wedlock. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!

5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ slow ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy s*x with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It’s the reason some women are seemingly “barren” and can’t talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating s*x altogether. You have so much to lose s*xually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal s*xual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that come with s*x IN MARRIAGE!

6. You start having s*x in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities otherwise known as spiritual spouse).

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.

8. You start getting unsatisfied and begins to desire the real thing. You fantasize more about s*x and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite s*x. You see them as s*xual objects and start having s*x with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscuous.

10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.

11. You are at risk of hell fire!

These and more are the consequences of masturbation.

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